Love is Purity

“Love is consciousness returning to itself.”

_Yohanes Kabes

Love is the moment when you no longer seek validation or anyone’s opinion outside yourself to justify your desires. For everything you see, hear, and observe is not a direct experience of your own. Every opinion, every piece of advice, every so-called wisdom is but a camouflage of manipulation — a projection of others’ personal experiences that you don’t need to let take root within your subconscious.

You don’t need to be shaped by the fears that others spread — not because you were once hurt, nor because you believe you must behave a certain way to attract “true love.”

For love itself is purity. Love itself is the wholeness within your own being. It is the kind of affection that embraces your soul exactly as it is — balanced between your light and your darkness, and courageous enough to take full ownership of both.

Love is friendship with silence — a sacred space where you learn to listen to the breath of higher awareness, until the feminine and masculine energies within you find their way to union and harmony.

Love is not a source to fulfill anyone’s ego. It is not a reason to conform to the world’s standards, nor to seek validation from anything transient. For love does not originate here. It needs no worldly approval to exist, because in its essence, love transcends all forms of proof.

If you choose to fall in love, first you must be whole within yourself. So that you won’t invite someone merely to fill an emptiness — a void born from the loss of a part of your soul, pulling you into inner imbalance.

If you choose to fall in love, then first, fall in love with both your imperfection and your perfection. So that you no longer seek someone to patch your wounds, to heal your old traumas, or to satisfy your unhealed need for control.

Love does not come to quench the thirst for human superiority, nor to feed the ego’s endless hunger for validation from this fleeting world. For God will not send what is true until you are whole within yourself. Until you stop searching because you no longer feel missing pieces of your soul, and until the balance between the feminine and masculine within you is truly aligned.

Before you reach that balance, everything that enters your life is merely a mirror of your own frequency — a vibration still learning to become worthy of receiving true love in the eyes of the universe. They do not come to punish you, but to reflect the parts of you that have yet to heal: the issues, the traumas, the desire to control, and all forms of attachment.

You are not being abandoned; you are being shaped.

Every experience is the universe’s way of teaching you fulfillment — so that you may finally find your home within yourself.

Believe this: once you are whole within yourself, nothing can break you — neither mentally nor spiritually.

You will no longer bring a child into this world just to fill your emptiness, to affirm your superiority, or to satisfy your desire for control. For bringing life into existence is not a way to cover wounds or loneliness, but a reflection of spiritual maturity that has healed. If not, you will only pass down your pain, continuing the wounds you never healed, through the way you love, nurture, and raise them — consciously or unconsciously.

When you have become whole and graduated from these spiritual lessons, you no longer love because you are seeking, but because you have found. You no longer bring someone into your life to fill loneliness, nor as a mirror of your ego and unhealed wounds. You love because you are whole, and from that wholeness, true love flows — not to possess, but to unite in the same awareness.

Love is consciousness. A journey home — to your truest self, where all dualities finally dissolve into one: the self and the universe, no longer separate.